We're out of Band-Aids Nearly every night before bed, for weeks now, Rosemary has asked: "Are you hurt?" A few times, I made the mistake of saying: "No, baby, I'm not hurt." "Dad, you are hurt." She takes my index finger in both hands, the way
Trouble Rosemary beckons me with two little hands and says, "Come." I follow. She opens the cabinet and removes one board game at a time. We open a box, empty the pieces, and then put them back again. For Rosemary, this is the game–making a mess and cleaning
Make your own peace If Ford should die in a sudden accident, a scenario I refuse to imagine or consider, I would use his eulogy as an opportunity to blast the dental hygienist who suggested that I discourage thumb-sucking for fear that Ford's teeth may move out of alignment. I believe she
Cornflower is a color He said "Yikes!" when he saw the blood. I sat on his toy chest while he stood behind me to examine my cut. He placed his hands on my shoulders and said "That's pretty bad." (It was not.) I told him not to use
Seafood; See Food When I go to the grocery store with Lewis, we always make our way to the seafood section. "We're not here to buy anything, just to look" I explain to the confused butcher at the counter. Lewis can't get enough of the seafood section;
Conversations from Yesterday “Dad, are you mad?” “No, I'm just thinking, why do you think I'm mad?” “You have an angry face.” “Sorry Lewis, I’m working on that.” {I fake smile for a few hours} It seems unfair that my children won’t compare me to my mom;
Hand I reached for Lewis' hand as we walked into his preschool and he said: "Dad, I don't need you to hold my hand anymore; I'm big now." I asked Ellie to hold my hand on the way out.
Laws and Machines If Earth knew that laws were made to be broken, she wouldn’t have made so many. When I asked her why I had to stay, she replied, rather abruptly, “Gravity.” The better thing for her to say would have been: “Because I love you.” But don’t mention this
Not gonna happen "Hey, could we talk?" six days pass "What else do you want from me" fifteen minutes later "To say I'm sorry." the next day "For what" fifteen minutes later "Too many things to say in a text." one
Short Story We ate breakfast before Lewis' appointment with the dentist. I urged him to brush his teeth before leaving, knowing this was stupid. Maple syrup and orange juice do not care where you've been or where you are going. Good parenting is not rational. At the diner, just